Do not do it as a chore
I mean who likes to do household chores, so don't make this a chore you get tired of. Do it with love, have fun and celebrate your love. If you cannot do it with love then don't do it at all... simple. Because no child should be brought into this world without love. No child should be brought into this world out of wedlock and even if you and your partner are married, that is no reason to bring the baby into this world if you do not love each other.
I heard that it takes a village to raise a child,
but today the child is lucky if he gets the love of both parents and grands parents. Women, in general are so adamant about asserting their independence that they tend to raise a wall around them and keep everyone out, the result, kids are being robbed of the love and affection. There could be many arguments and misunderstandings in a family but to rob a child of love is an unforgivable sin. A child needs the love of both father and mother, it needs to cuddle in the arms of grandparents and feel safe, it needs the companionship of siblings and cousins to grow and bloom, it needs to know that the world is full of different kinds of people, not just motherand father; they need to develop their social skills so friends and relatives are also important. Raise a child in a friendly and loving environment and that means the love and support of everyone close to you.
Raising a baby is a tiresome business, yes it is blissful and beautiful but it is also true that this needs a considerable time and patience. Those sleepless nights take the toll on you in a way you never thought possible, sometimes you feel like sleeping all day without a care in the world and during those times you need to make sure your child is in responsible hands, who you trust. It is hard enough to do it with the love and support of your partner, but to think you do not love your partner and having the child will only feel like a burden and it is the most unjust thing you will be doing for your child.
I mean who likes to do household chores, so don't make this a chore you get tired of. Do it with love, have fun and celebrate your love. If you cannot do it with love then don't do it at all... simple. Because no child should be brought into this world without love. No child should be brought into this world out of wedlock and even if you and your partner are married, that is no reason to bring the baby into this world if you do not love each other.
I heard that it takes a village to raise a child,
but today the child is lucky if he gets the love of both parents and grands parents. Women, in general are so adamant about asserting their independence that they tend to raise a wall around them and keep everyone out, the result, kids are being robbed of the love and affection. There could be many arguments and misunderstandings in a family but to rob a child of love is an unforgivable sin. A child needs the love of both father and mother, it needs to cuddle in the arms of grandparents and feel safe, it needs the companionship of siblings and cousins to grow and bloom, it needs to know that the world is full of different kinds of people, not just motherand father; they need to develop their social skills so friends and relatives are also important. Raise a child in a friendly and loving environment and that means the love and support of everyone close to you.
Raising a baby is a tiresome business, yes it is blissful and beautiful but it is also true that this needs a considerable time and patience. Those sleepless nights take the toll on you in a way you never thought possible, sometimes you feel like sleeping all day without a care in the world and during those times you need to make sure your child is in responsible hands, who you trust. It is hard enough to do it with the love and support of your partner, but to think you do not love your partner and having the child will only feel like a burden and it is the most unjust thing you will be doing for your child.
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